Why is it so hard for me to get up in the morning?

If you have a delayed sleep phase and you tried to wake up at a "normal" time this morning, such as 7:30 am, there are two reasons you probably found it difficult and unpleasant. First you didn't spent enough time sleeping to fulfill your sleep requirement. The other reason is that the drive for sleep follows a cycle, determined by the biological clock. The middle of the night, or shortly after, is when the drive for sleep is greatest - and if you have a tendency to fall asleep at 3 or 4 am and get up around noon, 7:30 am is close to the middle of the night for you.

The variation in "drive for sleep" at different times of the day is physiologic, not just a matter of habit or choice. There are several other rhythms in the body which are closely related to sleep/wake patterns. For example, body temperature rises and falls during the day. You tend to fall asleep when your body temperature is falling; it reaches a minimum around the middle of the night (meaning, again, the individual's subjective night) and then rises again toward morning. The concentration of melatonin in the blood rises during the evening, peaks during the night, and then decreases again. Hunger to some extent also follows circadian rhythms - if you get up too early you likely don't feel like eating breakfast right away. Loosely speaking, when the biological clock says it is time to be asleep, the body gears down in many ways, and during that time it is hard to wake up or to be fully alert.

Besides DSPS, there are many other causes of difficulty waking up and daytime sleepiness. Some of the more common ones are listed below.

In DSPS and other circadian rhythm sleep disorders, daytime sleepiness is greatly reduced when the individual's preferred sleep/wake times are followed. Have you ever been able to wake up as late as you wanted to for more than a few days at a time? If you still often felt sleepy during the day, it is likely that something other than DSPS is contributing to your sleepiness. Excessive daytime sleepiness is usually treatable, and should be investigated by a professional trained in diagnosing and treating sleep disorders.

Pulmonary Diagnostics and Consulting Sleep Questionnaire